Why do we fear confrontation and being straightforward? Is it fear of offending someone? fear of being proven wrong? Fear of exposing our feelings? Maybe
Sometimes letting go of an issue is the best route, but when things actually matter, why do we shy away from confrontation?
We often let our fears overcome the downsides of confrontation. Why is it so horrible to be direct with people? To let them know how you feel and why you feel it. Why can't we just man up!?
When we hide our feelings we often decrease communication and general understanding, increase bitterness, and don't solve anything. As an introvert, I understand this well.
Some people don't take hard truths well, but that shouldn't stop us from being honest in a caring/loving way. Understanding is so great and without it so many stupid and unnecessary things happen.
"Peace cannot be kept by force, it can only be achieved by understanding"
~Einstein
Without being open with each other and trying to understand where other people are coming from, we greatly hinder the growth of our relationships. We can even ruin relationships this way.
Ever heard of Jesus? He certainly didn't hold back. Why should we?
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